KICKING FOR TWO

by Ida Bettis-Fogle

You know what it's like when your footbag shoes are finally so worn they're no longer usable and you have to break in new ones? You know how really frustrating it is when the model of shoe you've used & loved for years is discontinued and you have to get used to kicking with a different kind of shoe? The footbag just doesn't sit in quite the same place on the shoe, or it rolls too much, or it bounces off at a different angle when you kick. You find yourself having to constantly make adjustments and it seems like some of your moves will have to be learned all over again.

Now imagine that you've been playing footbag for a few years and suddenly you find yourself using a whole different body. You have big bulges in places where you formerly had flat taut muscles. Your balance is completely different and gravity becomes a more formidable enemy when you have several extra pounds to move around. Congratulations! You're now kicking for two.

The Joys

Although pregnancy means big adjustments (and not just in your footbag game), I'm discovering that there are advantages. For one thing, as I get bigger I have an excuse not to pick up a dropped footbag if I can get someone else in the circle to do it. That way the bag gets served to me more often. I intend not to let this opportunity slip by since it is a time-limited deal.

Another thing that's fun is getting my new unusual surfaces into the action. Thanks to my pregnant condition, I've finally been able to hit a move that I thought would forever remain an elusive dream -- a cleavage delay. I haven't been able to achieve the belly bounce yet, but I'm sure the baby will be getting his/her first footbag kicks in soon.

An unexpected bonus I've experienced is that I'm now hitting some freestyle moves I was having trouble with before. I suddenly find myself able to do a clipper stall to an osis pretty consistently, when before I struggled and struggled with this move that seemed like it should be so easy for me. Evidently the shift in my balance puts me in the proper position to get the bag. Pregnancy can give you a whole new insight into what makes some tricks work & what can cause you to miss them.

The Frustrations

Of course, it's not all roses. Even if a couple of freestyle moves seem to come easier, the additional bulk and new sense of balance (or lack thereof) makes freestyling and footbagging in general more and more difficult. I'm finding that an extra CENSORED pounds makes getting off the ground to do a flyer a real challenge. Plus I can feel the additional weight when I land. The possibility of spraining an ankle is becoming a real concern. Legovers are also a problem as thighs and tummy start to collide. Believe me, it can be extremely frustrating seeing your friends still adding new moves and cranking out wild combos while you're struggling to do simple things that came easily as recently as a couple of weeks ago. And if I go for too many days without playing I have major adjustments when I kick again. It's amazing how much things can change in just a week.

Oh, and have I mentioned the serious energy crisis of the first three months or so. It's maddening to want to play footbag, but to barely have the energy to even drag yourself home from work before collapsing in a heap. For awhile my schedule went something like this: Work 8 hours & sleep 16; repeat. Then, about the time my energy level came back up, I started putting on the pounds. At times it's very easy for me to start feeling like my life in footbag is now completely over with and I might as well take up knitting instead. I just can't wait until I can no longer see my feet.

The Coping Mechanisms

I try to be realistic. I'm probably not going to learn to torque when I'm six months pregnant. But I also know that doesn't mean I have to stop kicking altogether. There's still a lot I can do (so far) and I just have to go with that. Instead of learning new freestyle tricks, I'm concentrating more on the music & flowing with what I can do.

I remind myself this pregnancy thing doesn't last forever and eventually I'll get back in form and ramp up my skills some more. Other women have done it, after all. Meanwhile, I can still kick and keep my conditioning up. My mantra is "What doesn't kill me, makes me stronger." It seems like anything I can do now should be a piece of cake later without all the extra bulk. It's kind of like theprinciple of working out with ankle and wrist weights on.

Finally, I'm trying to learn to chill out. I'm starting to enjoy the fact that I'm putting less pressure on myself now when I play. In the days BP (before pregnancy) I had started to get pretty intense about learning new moves and letting my happiness about kicking hinge on things like whether I hit a certain freestyle trick or did a spike in net. Now I'm happy just to play. I've been having a great time with circle games like one-up five down that I didn't want to waste my time on previously. Once I decided it was okay not to work on a lot of new stuff for the next few months , I gained this sense of freedom because I had given myself permission to do whatever seems fun without worrying about keeping up in the official or unofficial competitive arena. I can kick just for the fun of it, like I did when I first started playing!


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